GUILT

 

Do you ever feel guilty about your behavior? If you tell a lie, does your conscience bother you? When I was in business in Georgia, I had a young man who was a customer in our sporting goods store. He told me one day of his divorce. After the judge granted him and his wife a divorce, his wife's sister said to him: "If you would like, I will live with you." He accepted her offer. I asked him if his conscience ever bothered him. He responded: "My what?" If he had any guilt feelings for his adulterous conduct, he was not aware of them. Is that attitude typical of most Americans or do most of us have guilt feelings when we do wrong or think we have done wrong? Our lesson today is very simply "Guilt."

 

Would it surprise you that some psychologists, psychiatrists and others do not believe anyone should feel guilt? Dr. Albert Ellis, a clinical psychologist, thinks it is inappropriate for anyone to feel guilty. His book, Sex without Guilt (New York: Grove Press, Inc., 1965), argues: "Since premarital sex relations are no longer viewed as morally reprehensible or sinful by most educated and informed individuals, there need be no intrinsic guilt attached to them" (p. 27). Although Dr. Ellis does not actually use these words, I get the impression from this book that men and women should feel guilty if they do not engage in sexual immorality.

 

Dr. Ellis also wrote a book with the title, Sex and the Liberated Man (Secaucus, NJ: Lyle Stuart, Inc., 1976). There are many observations in his book I cannot read on this radio program. They are just plain vulgar. But if you want to know how anyone could be so absolutely ridiculous, a few statements from his book should be convincing. "You come into the world for no particular reason, and the universe doesn't care whether you live or die, achieve great pleasure or pain" (p. 51). "No one need ever feel guilty about anything he or she does" (p. 68). Finally, "As I tell my psychotherapy clients, whatever exists should exist-because it does" (p. 126). There are a number of serious problems with this last observation. One of the problems is that Dr. Ellis does not believe what he has written. In his book, Sex without Guilt, Dr. Ellis insists: "Certainly, human beings should not rape members of the other sex; pretend to love to win favors; take sexual advantage of minors, etc." (p. 66). Did he not argue: "Whatever exists should exist because it does?" Does he not know that rape and child abuse are common in our nation? Since they exist, should they not exist, according to his irrational views?

 

Dr. Ellis affirmed: "No one need ever feel guilty about anything he or she does."   If Dr. Ellis actually believes that, he is a moral reprobate. We need to ask him and others who entertain such idiotic views a few questions. Should a person feel guilty if he raises dogs to kill other dogs in vicious fights? If a soldier takes a bayonet and disembowels a child, should he feel guilty? If a man drowns his pregnant wife in the ocean, should he feel guilty? If a mother drowns her beautiful little boys in a lake in South Carolina, should she feel guilty? If the chief executive officer of a corporation steals millions of dollars from his stockholders and from his employees, should he feel guilty? If the president of the United States engages in sleazy sex with a 21-year-old intern, should he feel guilty? I am not asking if any of these people are guilty, but I am asking if they should feel guilty?

 

Oddly enough, there are politicians, academicians and theologians who want anyone who has succeeded to feel guilty. If a person has used his talents and opportunities to gain wealth or influence, some liberals within our nation try to make that person feel as if he has done something wrong. Anyone who rises above the crowd must be crooked and must be brought down. Is that not one of the reasons some politicians wanted to prosecute Bill Gates and Microsoft? If some of our leaders had their way, everyone would be the same. No one would have more than anyone else. That not only is morally reprehensible; it is destructive of people's ambition to excel in their chosen professions or occupations. And did not Jesus speak of some men's having ten talents and some having five and some having one? Should a person feel guilty if has worked hard and has succeeded?

 

The King James Version of the Bible never uses the word "guilt," although it sometimes uses the word "guilty." Paul employed the word "guilty" in the following verse. "Now we know that whatsoever things the law says, it says to them who are under the law: that every mouth may be stopped, and all the world become guilty before God" (Rom. 3:19). Paul used the same word in reference to men's failing to take the Lord's Supper in a worthy manner. "Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord" (1 Cor. 11:27). James warned his readers: "For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all" (Jas. 2: 10).

 

The Bible furnishes numerous examples of people who were guilty of grievous sins against God and against their fellowmen. King David, the man after God's own heart, saw the naked wife of another man, lusted after her, had her husband killed and then married her. Regardless of Dr. Albert Ellis's foolish contentions, David should have felt guilty for his heinous deeds. God almighty sent the prophet Nathan to confront King David. He used a parable to convince the king of his guilt. I shall not take the time to relate the parable, but hearing the parable made David angry at a man who had taken another man's lamb. He said to Nathan: "As the Lord lives, the man who has done this deed shall surely die: and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing, and because he had no pity" (2 Sam. 12: 1-6).

 

The prophet said to David: "You are the man." If David had been like King Saul or Ahab or Manasseh, he might have killed Nathan. But David realized that his behavior had been inexcusably evil. "And David said to Nathan, I have sinned against the Lord" (2 Sam. 12:7,13). Was the prophet Nathan within his right to make David feel guilty for his actions? Absolutely! Nathan had no other choice if he wanted to have God's approval and provide the motivation for David's repentance. From that day onward, David's sins were constantly on his mind. In very simple language, he felt guilty because he was guilty.

 

Please listen to David's plea for mercy and forgiveness. "Have mercy upon me. 0 God, according to thy loving-kindness: according unto the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions. Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin. For I acknowledge my transgressions: for my sin is ever before me. Against thee, and thee only, have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest" (Psa. 51: 1-4). Why did the Holy Spirit record these ideas? Is he telling us what we must do when we sin against God almighty and against our fellowmen? But if we are not guilty, why would we need to repent?

 

The church of our Lord at Corinth had many serious problems-both spiritual and moral. They were sinfully divided. The members were saying: "I belong to Paul; I belong to Apollos; and I belong to Cephas (or Peter); and I belong to Christ" (l Cor. 1:12). The situation was not merely inappropriate, but sinful. Paul informed the Corinthians: "And I, brethren, could not speak unto you as spiritual, but as carnal, even as unto babes in Christ. I have fed you with milk, and not with meat: for hitherto you were not able to bear it, neither yet now are you able. For you are yet carnal: for whereas there is among you envying, and strife, and divisions, are you not yet carnal, and walk as men" (1 Cor. 3:1-3)?

 

Tragically, there was a brother in the church who was sleeping with his father's wife. What action had the church taken against the brother? If the members had done anything, it does not appear in the sacred text. Paul commanded them: "For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him who has done this deed, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when you are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of the Lord Jesus Christ, to deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus" (1 Cor. 5:1-5).

 

There were many other problems in the church at Corinth, but I shall mention just one more. The members of the body of Christ were having confusion around the Lord's Table. Paul explains: "When you come together therefore in one place, this is not to eat the Lord's Supper. For in eating everyone takes before others his own supper: and one is hungry, and another is drunk. What? Do you not have houses to eat and to drink in? Or do you despise the church of God, and shame the ones who have not? What shall I say unto you? Shall I praise you in this? I praise you not" (1 Cor. 11:20-22).

 

Do you believe the Corinthian Christians were guilty of violating the teachings of the gospel of Christ? Paul told them they were guilty. "Wherefore whosoever shall eat of this bread, and drink of this cup, unworthily (that is, in an unworthy manner), shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord" (1 Cor. 11:27). After the Corinthians read Paul's powerful letter, did they realize they were guilty of sinning against God? Fortunately, there is not even the slightest doubt about it. Please listen to Paul's account of what occurred. "For, when we were come into Macedonia, our flesh had no rest, but we were troubled on every side; without were fightings, within were fears. Nevertheless God, who comforts those who are cast down, comforted us by the coming of Titus; and not by his coming only, but by the consolation wherewith he was comforted in you, when he told us your earnest desire, your mourning, your fervent mind toward me; so that I rejoiced the more. For though I made you sorry with a letter, I do not regret it, though I did regret it: for I perceive that the same epistle has made you sorry, though it were but for a season. Now I rejoice, not that you were made sorry, but that you sorrowed to repentance: for you were made sorry after a godly manner, that you might receive damage by us in nothing. For godly sorrow works repentance unto salvation not to be regretted: but the sorrow of this world works death" (2 Cor. 7:5-10).

 

Many modern preachers would never approach the sins of their listeners as Paul approached the sins of the Corinthians. What modem preacher wants to be criticized for being negative? Could the current moral situation in our nation be related to the weak preaching in many pulpits? If all of us preached like the great Old Testament prophets, John the Baptist, the faithful apostles and Jesus Christ, could it make a difference in the moral and spiritual atmosphere of America? Should our preaching convict sinners of the errors of their way? Should we make them feel guilty when they are guilty? If men and women do not believe they are guilty of violating the law of God, what would lead them to repentance?

 

Our Lord's Parable of the Prodigal Son illustrates what occurs when one is genuinely convicted of his errors. The greedy and rebellious son demanded that his father give him the portion of the inheritance he expected to receive. The father graciously complied with his son's demands. The foolish son went into a far country and spent his entire inheritance on riotous living. "And when he had spent all, there arose a mighty famine in that land; and he began to be in want. And he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country; and he sent him into the fields to feed swine. And he would fain have filled his belly with the husks that the swine ate: and no man gave unto him. And when he came to himself, he said, How many servants of my father's house have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before you, and am no more worthy to be called your son: make me as one of your hired servants" (Lk. 15:13-18).

 

Christ provides two reasons why the prodigal son returned to his father. He remembered the goodness of his father. When he came to himself, he said, "How many hired servants of my father's house have bread enough and to spare" (Lk. 15:17)! The prodigal felt guilty for the wrongs he had committed. He purposed in his heart: "I will arise and go to my father, and will say unto him, Father, I have sinned against heaven, and before you" (Lk.15:18). What person has ever repented if he did not believe he was guilty?

 

Graham Johnson's book, Preaching to a Postmodern World: A Guide to Reaching Twenty-first Century Listeners (Grand Rapids: Baker Books, 2001), affirms: "At one time guilt may have been identified as an inner gauge of personal accountability-a sin of something gone wrong. Now guilt is merely a nuisance, a faint noise in the engine courtesy of a previous owner. Guilt problem? Just ignore it. ... Postmodern people generally lack a sense of sin-sin with a big 'I' in it, a deep sense of inadequacy standing the presence of a holy God who dismisses any claim to self-sufficiency. Therefore as one considers a message built on 'the answer to guilt,' expect the response, 'What's the question" (p. 81)? Graham Johnson quotes George Hunter III as saying, "The profound sense of personal guilt has almost disappeared" (p. 116).

 

Before we consider another biblical example of guilt, I do want to say in passing: There are some people who feel guilty when they are not guilty. They are similar to the persons who think they have whatever disease afflicts other people. When you begin to describe your illness, they immediately identify with whatever is bothering you. False guilt may be quite common among devoutly religious people. But you should not feel guilty if you are not guilty. Oddly enough, there are people in the media who attempt to make Americans feel guilty for all the tragedies that occur anywhere in the world. If there is an uprising in Africa or in Latin America, the media blame the United States for it. But the media often ignore personal guilt, regardless of the heinousness of the crime. If a man slaughters a dozen of his neighbors, it is our capitalistic system that is the culprit.

 

If you are guilty of sinning against God and against your neighbors, how can that guilt be removed forever? The Jews on Pentecost furnish an example of people who were guilty but whose sins were forgiven. There are some preachers who deny that the Jews killed the Messiah. Will you please give attention to what the inspired apostle Peter said to his Jewish countrymen on that momentous occasion? "You men of Israel, hear these words: Jesus of Nazareth, a man approved of God among you by miracles and wonders and signs, which God did by him in the midst of you, as you yourselves know: him, being delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God, you have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain" (Acts 2:22-23).

 

The mighty miracles Christ had performed confirmed that he was what he claimed to be-the Messiah. Those miracles did not occur in some distant land. They were performed in the midst of the Jews and the Jews knew it. So were the Jews guilty of crucifying their own Messiah? They believed they were or they would not have asked Peter and the other apostles: "Men and brethren, what shall we do?" Were the Jews asking what to do to avoid the wrath of the Roman government for killing an innocent man? Absolutely not! The Roman government was complicit in the death of Christ. The Jews were asking the apostles, "What shall we do to remove our guilt and to be saved from our sins?"

 

Peter's inspired answer to the Jews' question can hardly be misunderstood, unless one wants to be misunderstanding. Please remember that Peter was speaking as the Holy Spirit gave him utterance. He commanded the believing Jews: "Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all who are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call.... Then they who gladly received his word were baptized; and the same day there were added unto them about three thousand souls" (Acts 2:37-39, 41).

 

We have established the guilt of the Jews for killing Christ. After the three thousand repented of their sins and were baptized in the name of Christ for the remission of their sins, were they still guilty before God? If the Jews could be forgiven of the guilt of crucifying Jesus Christ, is there any sin so great God will not forgive it and remove the guilt from your conscience? If you are not a Christian, please obey the gospel today.

 

Winford Claiborne

The International Gospel Hour

P.O. Box 118

Fayetteville, TN 37334

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